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Preparing for family court in

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California?

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Identify the orders at issue,

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meet filing and service

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deadlines, and organize

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relevant evidence.

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A hearing and a full trial can

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require different preparation.

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Start with the notice and

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existing orders.

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A request for order hearing

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usually addresses a particular

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request, such as support or

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parenting time.

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A divorce trial resolves

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disputed issues through

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evidence.

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Check what the judge can decide

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that day, how you must appear,

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and what the local court

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requires.

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Trial briefs, financial

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disclosures,

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settlement conferences and

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discovery can have separate,

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earlier deadlines.

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Do not assume a postponed trial

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moves every deadline.

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Prepare a concise declaration:

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a written statement of facts

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you personally know, explaining

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how you know them.

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Connect each fact to the order

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you are asking for.

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Include useful supporting

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documents, and follow page

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limits and filing rules.

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Usually, material for the judge

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must also be served on the

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other side before the hearing.

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Bringing a surprise stack of

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papers on the day does not

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guarantee the judge will

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consider it.

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Do not assume a signed letter

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replaces a witness.

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At a California family law

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request for order hearing, the

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court generally must receive

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live, competent, admissible

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testimony within the issues,

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unless the parties agree

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otherwise or the court finds

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good cause.

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For witnesses other than the

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parties, prepare a witness list

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and description of expected

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testimony,

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served with the request or

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response.

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Ask early about subpoenas and

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arrangements for witnesses to

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attend.

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Group documents by the issue

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they help prove.

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Keep an index, your filed

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papers, the other side’s papers

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and a short speaking outline.

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Keep original records and the

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context around messages or

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photographs;

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do not alter evidence.

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Follow your court’s exhibit

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naming and exchange

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instructions.

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Bring the required copies for

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the court, yourself and the

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other side.

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Ask how to protect private

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information in filed copies

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while preserving the underlying

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records.

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At a trial, each side can

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testify, call witnesses and

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present evidence.

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The other side can question

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witnesses and object.

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To use an exhibit, show it to

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the other side,

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identify it through appropriate

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testimony, explain why it

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matters, and ask the judge to

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admit it.

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A screenshot or filed document

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is not automatically accepted

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as proof.

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Hearsay and authenticity rules

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can matter.

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The judge rules on objections;

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get help with disputed evidence

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before trial.

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If custody or parenting time is

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disputed, check the court’s

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mediation arrangements before

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the hearing.

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You do not have to agree to

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a parenting plan.

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Where there is a restraining

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order or a domestic violence

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allegation,

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California guidance says you

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have a right to meet separately

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with the mediator.

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Tell the court about safety

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concerns.

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The ordinary meet and confer

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requirement has a domestic

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violence exception;

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it is not permission to breach

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a no contact order.

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Confirm the courtroom or

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approved remote connection,

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plan childcare and arrive or

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connect early.

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Request an interpreter or

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disability accommodation as

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soon as possible.

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When your case is called,

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follow instructions,

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identify yourself and answer

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the judge’s questions.

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Use your notes, speak about the

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issues and avoid interrupting.

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The judge may decide that day

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or need another hearing.

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Being without a lawyer does not

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remove the rules of evidence or

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court procedure.

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Write down what the judge

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decided, the next date and any

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tasks.

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Ask who must prepare the

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written order and how to obtain

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it.

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The order must accurately

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reflect the ruling;

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follow the orders that apply.

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A decision at a divorce trial

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does not necessarily mean the

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divorce is final.

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If you think the decision is

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wrong or unclear,

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seek prompt advice about the

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correct procedure and deadline,

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rather than ignoring it.

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Read the California answer and

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sources at Legal Hotline dot

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Our United States number is on

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information.

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For advice about your evidence

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or court strategy, speak with a

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