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I am being stalked, harassed or threatened—how can I get protection, and what if police will not act?

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. Otherwise, use a safe device to seek victim support, preserve evidence without increasing risk, and report the pattern of conduct. Ask about a civil protective order even if police have not brought a criminal case. If a report goes nowhere, ask about supervisory review, a victim advocate and local court or legal-aid help. The available order, proof and procedure depend on state law and your relationship to the person. Neither a report nor an order guarantees safety.

Immediate danger: call 911. Use a safe device or channel to seek help. Do not confront the person or change a potentially monitored device without considering safety and evidence.

5:08Published September 23, 2026Stalking and personal safety

Key points

Immediate danger calls for emergency help, not a website form.
Document the pattern safely; you do not need a perfect file before seeking help.
Ask police about the report status and appropriate follow-up.
Civil court protection and criminal prosecution are separate routes.
Plan device and account changes before alerting a suspected stalker.
Use victim advocates and a safety plan alongside any court order.

Record the pattern safely

Stalking is often a pattern, not one isolated message. Keep a factual log of dates, places, conduct, witnesses and the effect on your safety or daily life. Preserve original messages, call records and relevant images somewhere the other person cannot easily access. Label estimated dates honestly. Do not provoke contact, enter another person’s account or put yourself at risk to gather evidence. You do not need a perfect evidence file before asking for help. Explain connections between incidents, including conduct that seems ordinary in isolation but has a threatening meaning in context. Keep existing report identifiers. This is preparation guidance, not a finding that any particular conduct satisfies your state’s criminal elements. Recording, privacy and admissibility rules require local assessment.

Sources: S1, S4, S5

Make a clear police report

When reporting, explain the connected incidents and why you are afraid, including threats, injuries, weapons or an existing order. Separate what you personally observed from what someone else told you. Ask for the incident or report number, the officer’s name and how to provide further evidence. Ask whether a copy is available and how follow-up works. An advocate may help you organize the information or accompany you where permitted. Keep a safe record of the response. Use the agency’s official reporting channel. Preserve both helpful and apparently inconsistent context. Do not publish private identifying details to pressure police or the other person. Access to report copies and accompaniment varies; these are requests, not guaranteed entitlements.

Sources: S1, S5

If police do not act

If police do not act, ask whether they recorded the report, need more information, or believe another agency has jurisdiction. You can ask about a supervisor, a detective or a victim advocate, and contact a local prosecutor’s victim assistance office where available. These are practical requests, not a right to force an arrest or prosecution. A court self-help center or legal aid service can explain possible civil protection. If a new incident creates immediate danger, seek emergency help again. This escalation sequence is editorial guidance, not a statutory complaint procedure or guarantee that an agency will investigate. Keep correspondence and ask about any formal complaint route. An agency complaint does not replace emergency assistance or extend court deadlines. Ask a local lawyer about any legal remedy for the specific response.

Sources: S2, S5, S6

Ask about civil court protection

A civil protective order and a criminal case are different processes. Ask the court which application fits the relationship and conduct, even if no criminal charge has been filed. Domestic violence, civil harassment and other orders have different eligibility rules. In California, for example, a civil harassment request can include a request for temporary protection while a hearing is arranged. The judge decides; a filed request is not a court order. Other states use different forms, standards and procedures. California is an illustration, not nationwide filing advice. Its guidance asks for recent and earlier incidents and allows a request for temporary relief. Read local instructions about confidentiality and safe contact details: filed papers may become accessible to the other party or public. Ask court staff or an advocate about address protection and confidential forms before filing; do not assume an ordinary filing is private.

Sources: S2, S6, S14

After requesting or receiving an order

If you request or receive an order, check service requirements, hearing dates and what any temporary order actually says. Use the authorized service process; do not confront the person to deliver papers yourself. California’s guidance explains service and proof, including asking the court for more time when service fails. Keep a complete signed copy safely accessible. Report suspected breaches through the proper channel. An order can provide legal protection, but it is not a physical barrier or a guarantee of safety. Ask whether the order is in effect, who may serve it, what proof must be filed and what happens if a hearing or service is delayed. Do not infer that every state uses California’s service rules or that a pending application has been granted. Let appropriate workplace or school safety personnel know about relevant restrictions when safe and useful, with an advocate’s help if needed.

Sources: S7, S8, S15

If a device or account may be monitored

If a device or account may be monitored, use a safer device to contact support when possible. The Federal Trade Commission warns that removing stalkerware or cutting off access may alert an abusive person and escalate danger. Plan with an advocate before resets, account changes or removing suspected tracking. Preserve evidence safely first. Blocking contact can also need a tailored safety plan. Unusual battery use can have many causes. Avoid unfamiliar tools advertised as an instant fix. The FTC discusses using another device to seek help and retaining important material before changing or replacing a phone. Technical steps should be chosen around personal safety, evidence and lawful access. This guide does not diagnose a compromised device, recommend covert monitoring or promise that deleting software makes a device safe.

Sources: S3, S15

When federal reporting may be relevant

Some stalking involving interstate travel, electronic communications or other covered conduct may fall under federal law. Specific intent, conduct, effects and jurisdictional requirements still matter; not every online threat becomes a federal case. The FBI accepts reports of possible federal crime through its official reporting channels or field offices. That does not automatically reverse a local police decision. A website tip is not emergency assistance, and submitting one does not guarantee investigation, arrest or protection. 18 USC 2261A contains distinct alternatives with jurisdictional and intent requirements and specified fear or emotional-distress consequences. A federal offense assessment needs the facts and current law; no nationwide punishment or charge prediction is given. FBI guidance directs emergencies to 911 or local police and possible federal crimes or threats to its tips service or field offices.

Sources: S9, S12

Victim support and emergency help

VictimConnect offers confidential support and referrals for people affected by crime. The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers advocates for relationship abuse. Their contact numbers are on screen, and their websites have further options. Contact them only through a channel you can use safely. These independent victim services can help with support and safety planning. They are separate from Legal Hotline and do not replace emergency responders. VictimConnect: call or text 855-484-2846 or use victimconnect.org. National Domestic Violence Hotline: call 800-799-7233, text START to 88788 or use thehotline.org. Current service pages were checked September 23, 2026. Use 911 for an immediate emergency. Access and response availability can vary; no confidential channel can be promised safe on a monitored device.

Sources: S10, S11

Your next steps

Seek emergency help for immediate danger; otherwise contact a victim advocate safely.
Preserve evidence without increasing risk and ask police about the report and follow-up.
Ask local court self-help or legal aid about protective relief, confidentiality, service and hearings.

Sources and publication

Fifteen official and first-party resources checked September 23, 2026, including DOJ/OVC, FTC, California court guidance, FBI reporting guidance, the federal stalking statute and victim support providers. Source versions and retrieval limits are recorded below. Police escalation requests are practical options, not a guaranteed right to an arrest or prosecution. California examples are not nationwide procedure.

S1. Stalking and reporting help
Definition and reporting help. Official page updated November 7, 2023; accessed September 23, 2026.
Immediate danger: 911; report stalking to local police; DOJ OVW is not a direct service provider.
S2. Stalking resources
Victim support; protection orders. Current official resource page; accessed September 23, 2026.
Stalking laws differ; advocates and safety planning; civil protection and criminal no-contact orders are different routes.
S3. Stalkerware: What To Know
Safety first; getting help; preserving evidence before changes. FTC article dated June 2026; accessed September 23, 2026.
Use a safer device and plan with a trusted advocate before disabling suspected monitoring; abrupt changes can escalate risk.
S4. Stalking incident documentation log
Incident documentation log. Current resource page; accessed September 23, 2026.
Record incidents and context safely; a log supports discussion with advocates and police.
S5. Stalking investigations and report writing
PDF pages 1–4, especially incident log and victim interview. SPARC report-writing resource, June 2022 URL edition; accessed September 23, 2026.
Document the course of conduct, context, evidence and report identifiers; victim advocates can support reporting.
S6. Request civil harassment protection
Request forms, explaining events and confidentiality. Current California self-help guidance; accessed September 23, 2026.
California civil harassment example: court request, recent/prior incidents, temporary protection request; filing privacy requires care.
S7. Civil harassment request service
Service, proof of service and if service is unsuccessful. Current California self-help guidance; accessed September 23, 2026.
California example: proper service and proof matter; seek court instructions if service cannot be completed.
S8. Enforce a civil harassment restraining order
Keep the order; police enforcement; safety planning. Current California self-help guidance; accessed September 23, 2026.
Keep a copy of the signed order and ask about enforcement; an order does not physically guarantee safety.
S9. Contact the FBI and report threats
Contact Us: emergencies, threats and federal crime reports. Official FBI page checked September 23, 2026; accessed September 23, 2026.
911/local police for emergencies; FBI tips or field office for possible federal crime, not an emergency response guarantee.
S10. VictimConnect Resource Center
Resource Center home page: access and safety. Current homepage states 24/7; older limited-hours resources are not used; accessed September 23, 2026.
VictimConnect call/text 855-484-2846 and chat, confidential referrals and support; use when physically safe.
S11. Get help
Get Help: advocates and contact options. Current first-party service page; accessed September 23, 2026.
Domestic violence advocate support; 800-799-7233, text START to 88788 and chat; not a police or direct financial assistance service.
S12. 18 USC 2261A — stalking
18 USC 2261A(1)–(2). OLRC preliminary indexed text, laws in effect September 21, 2026; latest listed amendment December 22, 2020; accessed September 23, 2026.
Federal stalking has specified intent, course-of-conduct/effects and jurisdictional elements; not every online or interstate incident establishes a federal offense.
S13. United States information service
United States homepage and service disclosures. Live first-party page checked September 23, 2026; accessed September 23, 2026.
1-844-690-0555 free general legal information; privately operated information service, separate lawyer matching, no attorney-client relationship.
S14. Civil harassment restraining order process
Ask for a civil harassment restraining order: process. Current California self-help guidance; accessed September 23, 2026.
California example of filing, temporary judicial decision, service and hearing; judicial relief differs from a police charging decision.
S15. Stalking: A Short Handbook for Victims
PDF pages 5–6 and 8. SPARC Stalking Victim Handbook, March 2024 URL edition; accessed September 23, 2026.
Individual safety planning, changing risks, limits of blocking/contact and victim support; no plan guarantees safety.

Full transcript

In the United States, if you are in immediate danger, call emergency services. Otherwise, preserve evidence safely, seek victim support, and ask about reporting and a protective order. A lack of police action does not erase those options. Stalking is often a pattern, not one isolated message.

Keep a factual log of dates, places, conduct, witnesses and the effect on your safety or daily life. Preserve original messages, call records and relevant images somewhere the other person cannot easily access. Label estimated dates honestly. Do not provoke contact, enter another person’s account or put yourself at risk to gather evidence.

You do not need a perfect evidence file before asking for help. When reporting, explain the connected incidents and why you are afraid, including threats, injuries, weapons or an existing order. Separate what you personally observed from what someone else told you.

Ask for the incident or report number, the officer’s name and how to provide further evidence. Ask whether a copy is available and how follow-up works. An advocate may help you organize the information or accompany you where permitted. Keep a safe record of the response.

If police do not act, ask whether they recorded the report, need more information, or believe another agency has jurisdiction. You can ask about a supervisor, a detective or a victim advocate, and contact a local prosecutor’s victim assistance office where available.

These are practical requests, not a right to force an arrest or prosecution. A court self-help center or legal aid service can explain possible civil protection. If a new incident creates immediate danger, seek emergency help again. A civil protective order and a criminal case are different processes.

Ask the court which application fits the relationship and conduct, even if no criminal charge has been filed. Domestic violence, civil harassment and other orders have different eligibility rules. In California, for example, a civil harassment request can include a request for temporary protection while a hearing is arranged.

The judge decides; a filed request is not a court order. Other states use different forms, standards and procedures. If you request or receive an order, check service requirements, hearing dates and what any temporary order actually says. Use the authorized service process; do not confront the person to deliver papers yourself.

California’s guidance explains service and proof, including asking the court for more time when service fails. Keep a complete signed copy safely accessible. Report suspected breaches through the proper channel. An order can provide legal protection, but it is not a physical barrier or a guarantee of safety.

If a device or account may be monitored, use a safer device to contact support when possible. The Federal Trade Commission warns that removing stalkerware or cutting off access may alert an abusive person and escalate danger. Plan with an advocate before resets, account changes or removing suspected tracking.

Preserve evidence safely first. Blocking contact can also need a tailored safety plan. Unusual battery use can have many causes. Avoid unfamiliar tools advertised as an instant fix. Some stalking involving interstate travel, electronic communications or other covered conduct may fall under federal law.

Specific intent, conduct, effects and jurisdictional requirements still matter; not every online threat becomes a federal case. The FBI accepts reports of possible federal crime through its official reporting channels or field offices. That does not automatically reverse a local police decision.

A website tip is not emergency assistance, and submitting one does not guarantee investigation, arrest or protection. VictimConnect offers confidential support and referrals for people affected by crime. The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers advocates for relationship abuse.

Their contact numbers are on screen, and their websites have further options. Contact them only through a channel you can use safely. These independent victim services can help with support and safety planning. They are separate from Legal Hotline and do not replace emergency responders.

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Being Stalked and Police Won't Help? What to Do Now (U.S.)

4:31 · Published September 3, 2026 · United States national overview

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Full transcript of this edition

If someone is repeatedly following, watching, threatening or contacting you, and the police seem unwilling to act, do not assume you have no options. Here is a clear national starting point. First, if you are in immediate danger, call 911 and move to a safer place. Do not confront the person. If you think your phone is being monitored, use another trusted device to call or search for help.

Stalking is usually about a pattern, not one isolated event. It can include following you, turning up at home or work, repeated unwanted calls or messages, threats, impersonation, property damage, GPS tracking or spyware. The exact legal test varies by state, but the common idea is a course of conduct that would make a reasonable person fear for safety or suffer substantial emotional distress.

Stalking is a crime in every state and under federal law in some interstate or online cases. The most useful thing you can do is make the pattern visible. Start a stalking incident log. For every incident, record the date, time, location, exactly what happened, witnesses, how it affected your safety, and who you told. Preserve original texts, emails, voicemails, call logs, gifts, letters, photographs, security footage and screenshots

that show the account name, date and web address. Store copies somewhere the person cannot access. If technology may be involved, safety comes before a quick fix. Do not automatically reset the phone, delete an account, remove a tracker or change every setting. That can destroy evidence or alert the person. Use a safer device and speak with a victim advocate about preserving evidence and making a technology safety plan. When you report to police, use

direct words: “This is a repeated pattern. I am afraid for my safety. These incidents are connected.” Give them a short timeline and copies. Keep your originals. Ask for the officer’s name, badge number, the incident or report number, and a copy of the report. Report every new incident and ask that it be linked to earlier report numbers. Be specific about threats, weapons, forced entry, assaults, strangulation, property damage, protection-order

violations, threats to children or pets, and any travel across state lines. Other crimes may be easier to identify even while the stalking pattern is still being investigated. If the first officer dismisses you, politely ask for a supervisor, a detective, or the department’s victim advocate. You can also contact a local victim-services organization and the victim-assistance unit at your county prosecutor or district attorney. An advocate can help you

organize the evidence, make a safety plan, and understand the local court process. Ask whether you may qualify for a stalking, harassment, domestic-violence, no-contact or other protective order. Names and eligibility rules differ by state. If online conduct or interstate travel is involved, you can also report to the FBI at tips dot F-B-I dot gov, or the Internet Crime Complaint Center at I-C-three dot gov. Use 911,

not an online form, if there is immediate danger. For confidential referrals, call or text VictimConnect, twenty-four-seven, at 855-4-VICTIM. If the person is a partner or former partner, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is 800-799-SAFE, or text START to 88788. For free, twenty-four-seven legal information tailored to your state, call Legal Hotline at 1-844-690-0555.

If you need formal advice, Legal Hotline can also help you book a fixed-fee consultation with a US attorney. You do not have to prove the whole case before asking for help. Put safety first. Preserve the pattern. Keep a record of every report. And keep moving through the available channels. This video provides general legal information, not legal advice.

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